Birthday and “we miss you” messages: when and what to send
A birthday message congratulates a guest in their birth month, often with a small gift; a “we miss you” message invites back a regular who has been away longer than usual. Both work best short, personal and true.
When should you send a birthday or “we miss you” message to your regulars, and what should it say? Timing, length, sample wording and the usual mistakes.
FAQ
- Do automatic messages count against my monthly campaign quota?
- No. The birthday message, the “we miss you” message and the expiry reminder run automatically and don’t use up the monthly campaign allowance, which is meant for your own one-off campaigns such as a seasonal offer.
- Can a guest stop receiving these messages?
- Yes. Phone notifications are optional, and a guest can switch them off at any time. Without notifications, a message only appears on their card when they open it, so nobody is interrupted against their wishes.
- What if a guest never gives their birth month?
- Then they simply don’t receive a birthday message. The card works fully without any personal data. The birth month lives in the optional guest account, and the guest decides whether to add it.
- Is two to three visit intervals a firm rule?
- No, it is a starting point. If your “we miss you” message reaches people who were about to come in anyway, lengthen the period; if lapsed guests rarely come back after it, try a shorter one. Change one setting at a time so you can see the effect.